My Stinking Facebook Addiction

I heard this somewhere recently, that Facebook is even more addicting than cigarettes nowadays.

At first I was like, “Uh, yeah right.”  But they explained that it’s because Facebook is soooo accessible.  Totally true!  If I’m at work, I can check Facebook anytime I want, all day long. And it’s even worse if you’re like me and have it on your phone, too.  I’m really truly able to check it anytime, day or night, 24/7.

And it IS addicting.  At times, I’m totally grossed out by how addicted I am to it.  And I think I can honestly say that 85% of the time, I’ll often get onto Facebook out of sheer boredom, which isn’t exactly a good reason.  At all.

Which is why I have declared Sunday at Facebook-free day.  Well, it’s one of the reasons.

I’ve been slowly working at making Sunday a true day of rest.  I think the Lord knew what we needed when he declared Sunday to be a day of rest.  We need time to unwind and be still and calm and unwind and relax and just be.  And it’s hard (for me, anyway) to do that when i am constantly hustling and bustling and “plugged in.”

So I’ve been trying to make Sundays a day where we go to church as a family, and then come home and just chill.

No laundry, no scrubbing toilets, no paying bills.  And NO Facebook.

Lots of reading, and naps, and REAL down time.

There’s something freeing about breaking the Facebook addiction…about having the power to look at that little icon on my phone and CHOOSING to ignore it for 24 hours.  I’m liking that feeling.

So just know that as much as I love all of you, any attempts to contact me on Sunday via Facebook will be ignored until Monday morning rolls around.  (You can always call or text me, however.  I’m not THAT unplugged on Sundays.)  ;)

We Have Survived

I have just eaten for the first time in almost 24 hours. I’m considering this a major accomplishment, because our little family has had the worst, most awful bout with the flu over the past 36 hours. Terrible.

Abby had it Monday, Jon had it Monday night, and I had it Tuesday. It was NOT pretty. Take every possible symptom associated with the flu…we had them all. In full force.

And it was apparently a family affair. Jon’s mom, dad, grandma, brother, and sister-in-law all had it, too. Big fun.

It was my first time being sick while being a mommy, and it was rough. Thank goodness Jon was starting to feel better by the time I got hit hard with it…he was awesome at taking care of baby girl as mommy laid there feeling like death.

We’re still feeling a little puny today, but we have survived and pulled through. And hopefully that’s the first and last time we see anything that awful for a LONG time. Ugh.

Crafty Christmas Day 10 – Homemade Bath Scrubs

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Yumminess for your hands – it doesn’t get much better than these.  My poor, neglected hands soooo need some of this action.  The easy-peasy how-to is here, complete with a link to make the labels, too!

Things That Rock My World

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Sometimes there are things in life that I just can’t get enough of, and my excitement oozes out and onto this blog. It’s been a while since I’ve done one of these posts…and this one was inspired by my breakfast this morning.

1. This cereal was on sale at Target last week.  There were about 402 flavors to choose from, and they all looked amazing.  I settled for this one, Chocolate Chunk Hazelnut Biscotti, because I cannot at any level ignore the urge to eat something chocolate at every possible meal.

It.is.amazing.

There is just enough chocolate to make it sweet, and the bits of chocolate kind of melt in your mouth.  And the hints of hazelnut and biscotti and the crunch of granola…it is everything that cereal in my life should be.  It was pricey, but so is Jon’s Captain Crunch when it’s not on sale.  This is the best impulse buy I’ve made in a long time.  PLUS, as if the taste wasn’t enough, the container has a plastic flip top lid.  LOVE THAT!  No crinkly plastic bags.  Best ever.

2. Aveeno Baby Cleansing Therapy Moisturizing Wash.  After trying what felt like every single baby wash option on the market, we have finally discovered one that doesn’t give Abby a little bumpy red rash.  Her sensitive skin has looked two thousand times better since we discovered this product.

3.  The Frugal Girls.  Learned about this site a few months ago, and fell in love with it right away.  I’ve recently “liked” them on Facebook, which has been seriously life changing.  In addition to offering fun recipes and crafts, they post freebies and deals that are very appealing (unlike a lot of other pages I “like” on FB).  There are usually at least a couple of free e-books every week, along with deals for ordering/printing photos, FREE magazine subscriptions (right now we’re receiving Field and Stream, Martha Stewart, and Popular Science in our mailbox…all for free!), online coupons, and on and on and on.  Amazing.  Super helpful.  Love it.

4. The Pioneer Woman’s show on the Food Network.  It took me a few episodes to warm up to my favorite blogger’s cooking show…but now I am 100% head over heels for it.  It’s totally refreshing to me to watch a food show that isn’t afraid of recipes that involve insanely huge amounts of butter, cream, and beef.  I love her style of cooking, I love her style of writing, and I love her style of living.  She is my hero in every sense of the word.

5. The 100 Workout.  First came across this workout plan on Pinterest, and thought it could be an interesting class to offer at the fitness center. Here’s the lowdown: 100 jumping jacks, 90 crunches, 80 squats, 70 leg lifts, 60 jumping jacks, 50 crunches, 40 squats, 30 leg lifts, 20 jumping jacks, 10 minutes jogging.  As Candice says, it sounds like torture, but it’s really not that bad.  I led it as a class for the first time last week, and it is an awesome workout.  Super fast paced – I think we were done in 15-20 minutes.  Love short workouts!  If you’re looking for a workout that will add some toning and a little cardio, give it a try.  :)

A Day in Lincoln

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I went to Lincoln on Wednesday for a couple of meetings for work. I still struggle sometimes with leaving my baby…Wednesday was one of those days. But she was in good hands at Grandma Schauer’s house, so I made the most out of my trip to the state capital.

My meetings were at the State Building downtown. Can I just say that they have THE BEST mother’s room I have ever seen. I was so impressed. I kind of wish that I could work in that building just to have access to the mother’s room. The room is locked, so you know you’re not going to get walked in on. It was divided into three little private stations. Each station was equipped with: Dove chocolates (need I say more??), a cd player, relaxing music, a board to hang your baby’s picture on, Lysol wipes and spray and hand sanitizer, and loads of magazines and breastfeeding info. I felt so…comfortable. And relaxed. I wanted to move in.

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I am a germ-o-phobe, I admit it. So the other thing I loved at the State Building were the door handles in the restrooms. I hate having to touch the doors after washing my hands…they had a brilliant solution to this that I’ve never seen before.

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Have you seen these? You hook your arm around it to pull the door open, so you don’t have to touch the door with your clean hands. Come on. The public health part of me loves this. (Holly! Have you seen these before?? You could have invented this!)

So after my meetings I sadly said goodbye to the state building and made a couple of stops on my way out of town. Jon needed some new jeans, and The Fort actually had his size in stock…it’s really, really hard to find a store that carries 30×40 slim fit Wranglers, so that was fabulous.

And across the way from The Fort is MilkWorks. It’s a store that has anything and everything you could need for breastfeeding and babies. I’ve been dying to go there. I needed a new part for my pump, so it was great to have a reason to check the store out. They have tons of cloth diapers, breastfeeding gear, and other fab baby items. I didn’t have money to buy much of anything other than what I went for, but it was just so fun to look and browse at all the cuteness. If you need to find a cute baby item, totally check them out. Good thing I live 170 miles away from them, because a girl could spend lots of money there! ;)

Thanks for a great day, Lincoln!

Protein: My New BFF

So for the most part, I’ve been feeling pretty dang good throughout this pregnancy.  The only yucky thing that I have experienced is feeling dizzy in the morning.   Starting in the second trimester I had these little bouts quite frequently.  If I felt light-headed pre-pregnancy, it meant that my blood sugar was low, so I’d amp up the juice/fruit/anything with sugar in it.  But unlike pre-pregnancy, eating or drinking did nothing to make me feel better…if anything, it made me feel worse.  So finally, at the suggestion of my mother, I focused less on consuming sugary foods and more on getting some protein in my belly.  And it did the trick!  No more dizzy spells!  I starting eating scrambled eggs at first, and now rotate between eggs and peanut butter/toast, and even add in Carnation Instant Breakfast (CIB) or Special K protein drinks, which have loads of protein.

By the way, drinking CIB brings out Disco Baby.  Baby REALLY likes CIB.

Another way I’ve been adding protein is through fruit smoothies.  I can’t get enough of them.  They are super easy to make, and you can vary them so much, depending on what you’re in the mood for.  I have been buying a variety of fruit, everything from bananas to blueberries to strawberries to apples and using a different variation of fruit each time.  No measurements here – I dump milk and vanilla yogurt and a packet of vanilla Carnation Instant Breakfast to the blender, toss in some fruit, blend it up, and there we go!  Yummy breakfast or snack in a cup.  Can’t beat it, and don’t have to feel guilty about eating it because it’s packed full of nutrient-dense foods. And protein. And CIB for baby.  :)

Thankful Thursday

I’m freaking out a little bit today about the ultrasound tomorrow.  It’s going to be  a long 24 hours waiting for the appointment.  I’m feeling scatterbrained and unfocused and random today…trying to be productive but it’s a struggle.  I’m glad for Thankful Thursday this week because it makes me focus on the positive things, and gives me a little break from worrying about what we’ll find out tomorrow.  Time will tell…so here’s what I’m thankful for right now.

131.  Computer guys who get my work computer back to normal.  Bless you all!

132.  Coupons for Subway.

133.  A little extra money that allows us to help strangers have a better Christmas.

134.  Encouragement and love and prayers from family, both near and far.

135.  Twinkly Christmas lights.

136.  People who know a whole lot about photography and blogs and Photoshop and share their knowledge with pitiful people like yours truly.

137.  Free books.  (More on this tomorrow…)

138.  Finally having snow in the forecast.

139.  My Crockpot.

140.  Paying off bills!!

Morning People

I really, really, really want to be a morning person.

To all of you who wake up at 4:30 am and go for a run and clean the bathtub and do 6 loads of laundry before heading to work at 8:00 am: you are my heroes.  I want to be you when I grow up.

It’s all I can do to drag myself out of bed in the morning, throw myself together and make it out the door, all in under a half hour. I love staying in bed in the mornings…especially in the cold winter months when I’m buried in flannel sheets and down comforters.

In my perfect world, I would have plenty of time in the mornings to eat breakfast, have some prayer and Bible study time, feed the dogs, water the plants, and maybe even do a little cleaning.

My problem is that I also want to be a night person.  I want to squeeze as much as I can out of each day, so I tend to delay going to bed until I absolutely can’t keep my eyes open any longer.  (Although since I’ve been pregnant, this means on a good night I crash at about 8:30, rather than 11:00. Sigh.)

So obviously I can’t have it both ways…can’t be a morning person AND a night person.  And at this point in my life, I’d rather be a morning person.  Taking it slow and easy in the morning is a lot more appealing than tearing through the house at 90 miles an hour, rushing, rushing, rushing.  It’s not my ideal way to spend the morning. It kind of makes me want to end the day before it even begins – it’s a little defeating.

I came across this free ebook online, and it’s given me lots to think about:

It says it’s a free ebook for moms, but don’t worry if you’re not a mom…or dad…because there are lots and lots of tips in the book that can help you regardless.  This ebook is simple and easy to read and is super motivating.  It has many helpful tips and ideas for those of us who desire to have more organized, meaningful mornings.

The thing I like most about the ebook is that the author encourages us to take baby steps, like getting up just 5 minutes earlier each week.  That is so doable!  I think my morning goal is to wake up at 6:15 (ish), instead of 6:45(ish) like I”m doing now.  So this week, I am getting up at 6:40 instead of 6:45, and next week I’ll get up at 6:35, and so on until I reach my 6:15 am goal.  I’m already appreciating the few extra minutes I’ve gained.  That approach is tons easier for me to swallow than telling myself that I will be getting up at 6:15 starting tomorrow.

So if you’re like me and aspire to be a Morning Person, you should check out the book.  It just may change your life.  Or at least your day.

Update #2 / Thankful Thursday

As many of you know, I had an ultrasound scheduled for Tuesday to check on the bambino, and I was a nervous wreck about it. That’s the worrywart in me coming out.  God and I have been having lots of conversations lately about trust and resting in Him, because I struggle with letting worries and fears take over and then I’m a mess and it’s no good for anyone.

But everything went perfectly! Praise the Lord!!! :)   Whew.

For those of you who care about the little details, the baby is currently 4.5 cm long.  I thought I was 11 weeks 2 days on Tuesday, and the baby measured exactly 11 weeks 2 days.  And most importantly, the heartbeat was nice and strong and exactly what it should have been.

Sorry about the fuzzy picture, but here’s the kiddo:

It was amazing.  It’s still a little hard to comprehend that there’s something inside of me, so seeing it was a little surreal, but oh so wonderful.

Jon was a little nervous that the baby has such a big head, but I finally managed to convince him that it’s normal for this stage.

This weekend will be the end of the first trimester, which is super exciting.  6 months to go!

Feelin’ Fine

Thanks, everyone, for your thoughts and prayers over the past few weeks.  It means a lot that we have so many people who care about us. We are very blessed! 

I’m glad to report that within the past week, I’ve begun to feel human again…which I was starting to doubt would ever happen!  It’s been a slower process than I expected…I guess deep down I didn’t really believe that it would take me so long to get back on my feet.  Even now it takes me longer than normal to get up and moving, and laughing, coughing and sneezing still hurts like the dickens, but my endurance is much better and I’ve been sleeping better this week – woo-hoo!  I’ve done too much a few times, and have paid for it in the days following, but I am learning that I need to truly just take it easy and not push too hard.  I feel like I’m constantly reminding myself that even though I’m moving around better, my insides are still healing and need to be treated tenderly.

My most recent appointment went well.  My doctor ripped the tape off my incision (literally – ouch) to check it out.  Here’s my vanity being revealed: I was afraid to look at it, because I really thought the sight of it would a.) gross me out, and b.) make me cry my eyes out at the sight of my no-longer-unblemished belly.  Seriously.  But the doctor made me look, and it looked awesome!  I could hardly even tell anything had happened.  Loved my doctor so much at that moment.  She did an amazing job.  Relief!  Of course, as time goes by, the scar may become a bit more obvious, but I’m ok with that now.  Then she taped me back up, gave me a shot of something (meds, not booze :) ), told me she’d see me in four more weeks, and sent me on my way.  So we drove 3 hours to get there, sat in the office for 30 minutes, and drove the 3 hours home.  We get to do that for the next 3 months until she gives me a clean bill of health. 

So, I’m making progress and feeling better.  Sorry about being slow in posting updates on the blog…until lately, I kind of didn’t want to think about the procedure any more than necessary.  Just now getting to the point where I can look back on everything without being a complete emotional wreck.  Ready to move forward!  Yay!  :)